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I am here for entertainment, casual contact with friends and potential networking only. When it starts out as friends the possibility of finding lifer's is greatest. I do not expect to find a life mate on here. If he does exist for me I believe he would live in some obscure place I have never heard of or would ever visit. Takes a lifetime to really get to know someone. Far from stupid and really don't believe the virtual hunnymoon theory. Seriously just come to grips with and realize the fact that people come and go a lot in our lifetime. To me Its a blast to celebrate all of our differences. What a sweet ride of life we are all on !! Enjoy the ride. Our time on this planet is too short to be serious all the time. I can handle flowers, hearts or endless virtual candy grams..but prefer to laugh and make others laugh..I get a charge out of it. predictability is so ZZZzzz..yes? If you want to get to know me there are three things you can do. Mail me and casually get to know me through minimal chat.then accept me
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18 febbraio

Right Or Wrong?

Right Or Wrong?

Do any of you realize, how often, when making a decision, we like to ponder over our options, then think about this most important question - is it right, or wrong?

I think, that mostly this question comes in when its matters of the heart. Many questions and doubts fill our minds. Especially those who once loved before, and lost that love. Remember a time when we looked up to love. When we thought, wow, love is such a wonderful thing. I want to be in love as soon as possible. Unfortunately, I believe that 90% of us get hurt or burnt with our first love.

This leads to many of us losing hope, losing the will the carry on loving. Or at least that's what we think. But the main problem, is not that we stop loving. We will still love, but doubts and experience holds us back. We feel that there is no such thing as pure, unconditional love. How could that exist? After all, we humans have needs, and if that need is not fulfilled, we'll leave.

Ah. How I envy the shakespearen era. He speaks of love, of life as an art. Where people choose to love who they will, not bothering what family and friends thought. Because nobody else is us. No matter how similiar. They cannot decide for us, because they cannot feel for us. How many times have your friends tried to desuade you from waiting for that hunk, or going for that babe, cause they feel that you'll just end up getting hurt. Ah. But my friends, hurt is but the process of love and joy. If we never feel hurt, how can we ever know what true love is?

Its not that pure, untainted and unconditional love doesn't exist. Its just that, after we've been hurt once, most of us forget that love never remembers the hurts caused, but moves on. Its because we bring with us the ghost of the past, that affects our present. Feelings, emotions, should never be tainted with doubts. Though we need to protect ourselves, let's not overdo it. Sometimes, opportunity knocks only once, sometimes, it comes and stays a long time. Whatever it is, if we don't take a chance, how will we ever know if it'll work out or not?

I understand that as humans, we all don't wish to be hurt. I'm fully aware of that, and I'm not requested that we all turn into innocent young babes and rush into the world. What I'm trying to get at is, if you've been hurt in a past relationship, go ahead and cry it out. But after that, when you decide to move on, leave the hurt and pain behind. Do NOT bring it into the next relationship. Cause everyone deserves a fair chance.

If you can't decide to go ahead or not, remember this line - if we never try, we'll never know, at least if we did try, we won't have to look back and think "perhaps I would have been better off if I did try". Perhaps not many of us believe that there is a God. I shall not go into religious issues as I believe its a sensitive topic. But as humans, we were born with the ability to love - unconditionally and indefinately. Do not worry so much about getting hurt so many times that you might not be able to love again in the future. Cause as sure as the heart may bleed emotionally, we will also be capable of loving continually.

I don't know how many of you will understand this entry. But I believe the few who do will know what I'm getting at. Do not be afraid of getting hurt. No matter how many times. I have been hurt too many times. But I leave the hurt and pain behind, and each new person who comes into my life, starts anew. He/she will not be judged by the actions of others in the past. Because love should never be tainted by the blood and doubts of days gone by.

After all, we worry so much about the future, about our fragile emotions, that we tend to look beyond the horizons, and sometimes, we just forget, that the simpler things in life, the things which matter the most, and that which can give us utmost contentment, is actually right infront of us.

There is not right or wrong. We live our lives as we want to, and only in that way, can we really say that we have never regretted letting an opportunity pass us by.

 

*smiles*

   Suz

03 maggio

Teens

Parenting Teens

I think I came up with this topic a couple weeks ago, but it is one that never ceases to amaze me. I have one teenage son, you would think that when I tell him I've tried all the tricks he can think of, he would get the idea that he can't get away with it. OK, so I failed parenting 101! he's a teenager,I know nothing and he can do it and see if he gets caught. We probably just didn't do it right when we were there age. Ah, the logic of teens.

Problem is when THEY get caught they suddenly realize that we are a little smarter. Problem is, one trick i've used on my son is one my dad would use on my brother and I. When I realized I was doing it, I knew I was getting old and was turning into my parents.

There is no doubt in my mind that eventually we turn into our parents at least somewhat. We are a product of our enviroment - no matter how hard we try to convince ourselves and others that we won't do the same things our parents did. Somewhere down the line though, we will - at least a little.

I've come up with the idea for my son, that since he thinks he can do whatever he wants, for the next week or two he will do whatever I want. After all it is Spring, and I haven't done any Spring cleaning yet.............I think I just found a volunteer.

So if you hear a loud yell coming from the Southern part of the Canada, not too worry - it's just my son.
Have a great week!
Suz
25 marzo

I'm Back :)

hello everyone
 I'm back...it's been a long time since i've updated my blog and I have so much to tell.
First of all I didn't run off and get married..lol,so I'm still single and very available.I did get a new job and like it very much,new place to live...well i'm back with my parents again,but it's all good.I'm going through some new changes in my life and in order to do some of the things I need to do to better myself.It's the best place for me right now.
I've decided to take the Real Estate courses and become a sales Rep.I've wanted to do this for many years, and a friend of mine has finally encouraged me to do it now.
My lawyer called me the other day and my settlement will be coming to me soon if I agree to it.I was in a car accident two years ago,the person hit me from behide.I went through 11/2 years of therapy because of it and am still having problems with my back,leg and three of my fingers are still numb.
With the money I receive from this I'll buy a duplet and rent it out.
I've miss coming out and talking to you all,and thank you for all the kindness you have show me.
My life is so much calmer now since I left that hell hole of my last job.It really effected my son and me.I never knew people could be so cruel.I have changed for the better in the last two months and we not allow people to take advantage of my good heart.So I eliminated anyone that will stand in my way of being positive.
It all about SUZ now.
Have a Great Weekend all!!
See you soon
Suz
20 febbraio

Under pressure

I am Under a Lot of Work/Move Pressure Right Now

So please don't panic, darlings.
I Miss you all !!
... I'll be back.
Suz
07 febbraio

We have Our city Back

 

 

Super Bowl is Over

 Paris Hilton ate sushi here. Red-hot actor Vince Vaughn dropped by a liquor store. John Travolta and Ben Affleck were seen downtown, too.

Ben Affleck supposedly rented  all of Cheetah for Sunday .John Travolta was seen at the local Star Bucks, and Elton John ate lunch at Plunkets.Yet no pictures have popped up.

Celebrity spotting and rumor-mongering have been international pastimes during Super Bowl week, and Windsorites were buzzing about all the stars checking out this often-overshadowed working-class city. Club owners boast there were more celebrities in Windsor than in Detroit during much of the week.

I did venture out on the Friday night to have a peek, maybe hoping to see someone.I couldn't just stay home now could I.So I braved the cold wet miserable rain with camera in hand to see ...NOBODY.I got Not a thing...sorry I thought maybe I could be the next paparazzi in Windsor for my space viewers.Lets just say I won't be doing that again.All I got me was some sniffles.                           

The local chamber of commerce would love to hear celebs say they were lured across the border by Windsor's clean streets, friendly people and favorable currency-exchange rate.

But the real reason they and thousands of other less-famous Americans have been so eager to pay the $3.50 toll for the Detroit-Windsor Tunnel is the city's fast-spreading reputation as an entertainment hub known as "Sin City North." During one of the biggest party weeks of the year, Windsor was the hot place to be and be seen.OK I didn't see anything to grand.Even our ice festival party was shut down early.I got there at 11pm and the tent was locked up like Fort Knots.

Windsor officials expected to get around 30,000 visitors in the week leading up to the Super Bowl and admit that things you can't find legally in Michigan -- all-nude strip clubs, Cuban cigars, adult massage parlors and escort services, are a large part of the attraction. The city's streets were filled with cars bearing Pennsylvania license plates and some from as far away as Texas and Alabama.

Windsor Mayor Eddie Francis doesn't like his city of about 200,000 people being renowned for such businesses, but he welcomes the attention. He expected the Super Bowl, and related events such as an ice festival downtown, to pump between $60 million and $80 million into the local economy and hopes it will help the city land a Canadian Football League expansion team.

While known locally as "Sin City" for years, some Canadian media have credited The Detroit News for the city's windfall. Dozens of newspapers throughout Canada and the United States have written about Windsor's entertainment scene since The News ran a front page story Jan. 1 telling readers about the city's strip clubs, cigar shops and 100 licensed escort services.

"One of the first things Windsor Mayor Eddie Francis should have done when the Super Bowl wrapped up was deliver a box of Godiva chocolates and a magnum of Hiram Walker's finest to the newsroom of The Detroit News," Windsor Star columnist Gord Henderson wrote last week, " given that The News almost single-handedly put Windsor on the map and made it the Super Bowl's must-see destination by branding us 'Super Sin City."

Many of the 3,000 journalists in Detroit for the Super Bowl had checked out Windsor. Some have written more glowingly about Windsor than Detroit. Victor Balta, a columnist from the Daily Herald in Everett, Wash., said: "If the Super Bowl is ever in Detroit again, I'm totally staying in Windsor."

The media frenzy about Windsor as a peccadillo paradise has gone far beyond what its businesses and residents were expecting, and some say far from reality.

"That's way overblown, but hey, whatever it takes to get people in here," I say,  "We're a far cry from Las Vegas, but we do offer some things that you can't get in the U.S."

The scene a few blocks away, along the Detroit River, was even further from anything you'd find on the Las Vegas Strip. At the Reebok Fan Zone, thousands of kids tried kicking field goals, throwing passes and running with a bungee cord attached to their back.

Parents said they hope such family-oriented events help Windsor shed its image as an anything-goes playground for men.

Others said Windsor could use the attention, as long as it encourages people to visit. The number of Michiganians crossing the border has declined since 2001 because of concerns about increased security.

Whether they like the reputation our city has gotten or not, Windsor business owners were thrilled to see packed houses and lines up out the door.

 Workers at his sushi bar, Oishii, say they served Paris Hilton on Wednesday."umm and no one got pics"

"This 'Sin City' label has been giving us an opportunity to reintroduce our city as an entertainment district," and again I say "If 'Sin City' lures people to Detroit so they come see Windsor, that's great for both of us."

Once people arrive, I think they can decide how sinful we really are.

"I think the food at our restaurants are absolutely decadent and our desserts are very sinful"

But you come on down and decide for yourselves.

Have a great Week!!

Suz

02 febbraio

Can you believe this

Hi Everyone...I'm a little pissed at the new changes in spaces.I've had nothing but problems ever since they tweaked with it.Thank god I didn't get the name Iwantsum...sorry Ez,hope you fix that small problem soon.I kinda like it thou.But it should have gone out to our friend Poopdeck.Suits him fine...lol..I was lucky enought to keep my name.eheh
 
My problem is I can't leave all you great people comments in your Blogs.I might managed to leave one  if  I'm lucky.So to all my new and old Blog friends.I do appreciate you stopping by.I'd love to leave comments for all who take the time to stop by.YOU ALL MAKE MY DAY!!
I just don't have the time to fart around on the spaces, to figure it out .So if you can help leave your comments.
 
I've been really busy this week.I found a new job that I'll start Monday.But this leaves me in a bind,as I work and live in the same place right now.I must vacate my home in 7 days as soon as I quit or get dismissed.Just a little stressful...but I'll be ok.There's nothing I can't pull off.I 'll keep you all posted as I can.
 
Thanks for the Birthday Wishes!The end of my day ended with all of you.With nice greetings.
 
The beginning started with me getting another Bull$hit memo.First they give me a birthday card ,then hand me a memo."sorry to do this on your Birthday Suz,we feel like real shits" Ya I bet Mr a$$ hole."we wanted to wait, but you're on vacation all next week" Ya soooooo I have one more day before i start my vacation(JERK).Talk about real pricks,can you imagine memoing someone on their BD?.
 
Alright I need to stop now I'm starting to sound like my friend Poopdeck.You know Poops I never use bad language.You thought I was a little Ms prissy long ago.DiD I do  you proud?
 
Ok ...I need to get my butt into bed like 3 hrs ago.See you all soon
Kisses (HUGZ)
 
Have a great Day!!
 
Suz
30 gennaio

My House

I  found this cool site
This is what my drawing says about me:
 
 
Based on your drawing and the 10 answers you gave this is a summary of your personality:
Your house tells the world that you ought to be a leader. You are a freedom lover and a strong person. You will avoid being alone and seek the company of others whenever possible. You love excitement and create it wherever you go. Once you have a problem, you need a friend with you. Your life is always full of changes.

When it comes to love, you shut yourself off. It's difficult to win your heart because you have decided to keep your feelings deep inside. You see the world as it is, not as you believe it should be.

You added a flower into your drawing. The flower signifies that you long for love. It also safe to say that others don't see you as a flirt. You don't think much about yourself
 
 
Go try it out and let me know what you get
 
Have a great Day

25 gennaio

A Nut bar

I'm not sure if I'm being Harassed or stalked by someone in my building.But it's getting a little scary now.
About a year ago I had a psycho Biatch living here.She cause havoc for me and other tenants for almost 8 months.I had the police called on me several times for false accusations.Many times for neglecting my son(living him home alone)abuse,drugs(selling them) and even one that I threaten her with bodily harm.I should have done this one!!Especially when she called Children's Services on me to report all of the about and then some.Well it got her a quick eviction out of by my building when my boss learned of this.Thank god someone stood by me.
Well it's all starting again.Someone obviously has it out for me,because the police were at my door on Saturday at 3:30 in morning.
Knock on my door
I stood there quietly listening...
Open up it's the police
I open the door.There's a male and female police officer standing there.
 police:how long have you been here
me:about one hour
p;where is your son?
m;sleeping
p;was he home alone all night?
m;no ,he was at my friends home with his mother.
p;so he came home when you did?
m;yes,why?
p;someone called in saying he was home alone all night
me.no that's not right.
p;may we check on him?
m;yes,I'll do better then that.I'll wake him ,so you can speak to him.
The police officer asked my son the same questions.Then I told them that he was 12.
Isn't that legal age to stay home ,yes the officer said as long as he agrees with it.I told the officers that my son loves to stay home alone,but wanted to visit with my girlfriends mother tonight since she gets lonely.
At this point I'm very upset ...not with them.But knowing that someone in my building is calling the police on me for stupid things.I told them that I'm being harassed and I'm sure it's a vendetta against me.I explain that I am the manager of the two building,and tenants can get very nasty at times with me.Not a very good thing, but it happens.
I'm a little nervous now.Someone is obvouisly watching my ever move and knows my comings and goings.Now do I really want to leave my son home?Hell no...not if someone in the building is watching us.
 
So I'm leaving the blog for a bit to tend to some issue I have.Either it's some nut bar playing games with me or my company is trying to scare the poop out of me...but it's time to play detective and get down to the real problem.
I will still be visiting my favorite spaces and of course the new one that leave their comments.
Take care
Suz
 
 
20 gennaio

TGIF

 
 
 
 
 
I don't know if anyone else feels like this.But I'm so happy is Friday.
I been having such a hard time at work lately,I'm thinking it's time to find another job.My boss and me butt heads...he's got it out for me since I went over his head and reported his actions towards me.A few months ago he ask to speak to me in his office about my daily work performance...it wasn't about that at all.
I've attached my e-mail I send out to someone over his head.
 

Dear Kevin,                                                                                                                          Thursday September 15, 2005

 

On Friday September 9 2005, Shawn called and requested a meeting with me at his office and thinking it was just another meeting about my job performance I went. After briefly speaking to me, Shawn mentioned that it was brought to his attention that I was drunk the day before. He even divulged the name of the person who had said this about me.

 

 Kevin,this was my day off first of all. So if I was drunk that would be my business. But I can honestly say that I was not and would never be drunk at 3:30 in the afternoon when my son is coming home from school.I can not believe how unprofessional Shawn was in this matter and how unjustified he was in his approach.

I have never been so insulted by an employer; or anyone else for that matter.

 

I have been under stress for many months with my immediate supervisor,over gossip and backstabbing with no end. Shawn is not someone who is very respected here. I certainly lost my respect for him after he handed me a pamphlet where I could seek help for the problem he suggest that I supposedly have. This is my work reputation he is messing with and I take this very seriously. I have been in management positions most of my working years. I would have never spoken to an employer or employee in the manner he has spoken to me.

 

He has gone too far... I told Shawn that this incident would be around Boardwalk by next week and he gave me his word that this employee and he would not say anything to anyone. Well thanks to Shawn's good word I received a phone called this morning from another co-worker on the latest gossip that I was passed out drunk on Empress Court’s lawn.

 

This is unacceptable and I will not be slandered like this, but what did I really expect from someone who just bullies his entire staff.

 

I will not let anyone destroy my reputation, my character and my pride. I love my job...but I can not be positive nor productive working under these conditions with a person who is supposed to be my respected superior.

Thank you for your time.   

 

 

 

Sincerely,

 

Sue P

 

His responds to me:

> Sent: Friday, September 16, 2005 12:58 PM
> Subject: Re: Confidential
>
>
 Sue,

Thank you for expressing your feelings to me. I appreciate that.
I will review.

 Have you brought this to the attention of Jonathan Brimmel or Leigh-anne 
Macintosh? The immediate supervisor is the normal chain of command.

Again thank you for expressing yourself.

 

WTF...do they really think I can be fluffed off...my responds to this:

 

As I previously stated in my e-mail this is a very serious matter to me.In a
normal working environment I most certainly would have followed chain of
command.But from my past experiences with myself and other co-workers doing this,there was always  repercussion or retaliation on the worker.

Would you please advise me,on how the review will be conducted,and how I'll be informed of the outcome.There is nothing that Shawn can do or say to repair the damage he has done to me,and the tention he has cause between two co-workers. My reputation here with my co-workers is now tarnished.I am embarrassed by this whole situation.
thank you for your concern

Sue

 

Ever since all this happened.I'm constantly being checked up on  and harrassed.They try to find something wrong in all my day to day performance  or work habits.

So they you are, MMMMMM..... I think I'm being bullied in the work place by my supervisors.What do you think?

 

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19 gennaio

Believe

 
 

If you think you can do it, you can. If you believe you can do it, you will. If you trust you can do it, you will make a difference.

- Catherine Ellis
 
 

 

Believe ....

 
 
“To Believe…”

To believe is to know that every day
is a new beginning.
It is to trust that miracles happen,
and dreams really do come true.
To believe is to see angels dancing among the clouds,
To know the wonder of a stardust sky
and the wisdom of the man in the moon.
To believe is to know the value of a nurturing heart,
The innocence of a child’s eyes
and the beauty of an aging hand,
for it is through their teachings we learn to love.
To believe is to find the strength
and courage that lies within us.
When it is time to pick up the pieces and begin again.
To believe is to know we are not alone,
That life is a gift and this is our time to cherish it.
To believe is to know that wonderful surprises
are just waiting to happen,
And all our hopes and dreams are within reach.
If only we believe.
 
Have a great Day!
Suz
 
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